On the other hand, if you were asking where those numbers come from,
it turns out that (at least for linear models) those parameters are
sufficient to define a likelihood wherein the fixed effects and
conditional error term (sigma) are analytically optimized. Since the
goal is a maximum likelihood, or REML, the sigma parameters are then
simply numerically optimized. You can then easily evaluate the mixed
model likelihood at any value of the var/cov matrix of the random
effects that you like, provided you are willing to accept maximal
values for the fixed effects and sigma. If you wanted to plug those
values in as well, it's a bit of a pain but it can be done.
Vince